Sex Coaching & Pleasure exploration
EXPLORE your fantasies. EMBRACE your desires. ENJOY your pleasure.
Sex coaching is a therapeutic relationship created between you and your coach, with the intention of supporting your individual goals.
In short, whatever sexual or pleasure-focused goals you want to work on, such as communication skills, kink exploration, or identity acceptance – we do just that in our customized coaching sessions.
Hey, I’m Coach JO!
Certified Sex Coach and Clinical Sexologist
I’m a Las Vegas based Certified Sex Coach and lifelong pursuer of pleasure. I believe that sexuality is an integral part of every human being and that we’re all capable of tapping into our erotic nature and desires. As a sex coach, I want to be a guide along your sexual journey. Whether you have deep sexual concerns or simply want to enhance your sex life, sex coaching is great tool to help you reach your sexual goals. I am passionate about the work, because I am still on the journey!
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Individual Coaching
The road to a more fulfilling sex life starts with the self. Learn more about getting clear on your sexual desires, boundaries, and challenges here.
Partnered Coaching
Is sex with your partner(s) lacking something? Time? Foreplay? Communication? Uneven desire? Start down the path to mutual satisfaction here.
Exploration Concierge
A little extra support and encouragement may be just what you need to explore your wild side. Tap into your pleasure by checking out my local concierge services here.
Some of the Topics We’ll Discuss
Your Sexual Vision
Many of us are holding on to outdated beliefs about gender identity, orgasm, or how we should feel during sex. Our vision of sex and sexuality can sometimes be the one thing holding us back from a life of pleasure. When we challenge these old ways of thinking and create new visions, ones that affirm and validate our unique erotic desires, we are able to move past “shoulds” and shame, making room for exploration and satisfaction.
Communication
How many times have you felt unheard or misunderstood by your partner(s)? Breakdowns and differing styles of communication between partners can stop a sexual relationship in its tracks, leaving you to feel frustrated and alone. Learn the key skills of being present, actively listening, and being vulnerable to better communicate with your partner(s).
LGBTQIA+/GSRD
I understand the challenges associated with questioning your sexual or gender orientation and identity. I acknowledge the pressures and stress of navigating intersectionalities between race and sexual orientation. And, I respect the feelings of shame and guilt that can arise from wanting to explore kink and alternative relationship styles having had years of non-affirming religious or spiritual teachings. I relate to all these things because I have lived through them. No matter where you are on the gender, sexuality, and relationship diversity (GSRD) spectrum, I will be a safe container for you to express your concerns and work toward living your life out loud.
Pleasure
Pleasure is, according to Oxford, the feeling of happy satisfaction or enjoyment. It often feels taboo for many of us to seek out any kind of pleasure, much less, erotic pleasure. We’ve somehow learned throughout life that seeking or indulging in pleasure is a waste of time or sinful. Let’s challenge those beliefs that prevent you from pursuing pleasure so that you can get on to a life of joy and satisfaction. You ALWAYS have the right to pleasure!
My Sex Coaching Approach
My goal is not to intimidate or overwhelm, rather it is to be a helpful guide on the path to your specific goals. My coaching is based on a 3-fold approach:
1. EXPLORE
The first phase of my approach is to explore. Together, we will identify your primary concerns as a coaching client. Through a thorough intake and assessment, I will learn more about your interests, fears, and beliefs. During this phase, I will also encourage you to explore new mindsets and erotic activities.
2. EMBRACE
After the exploratory phase is perhaps the most important part of the process, embrace. I will coach you into a state of enthusiastically accepting your new sexual visions and fantasies. You will begin to move past shame and into full acceptance of your sexual identities, orientations, and expressions.
3. ENJOY
The last element of my approach is to enjoy! You can have a life of pleasure, fulfillment, and satisfaction. You will learn how to lean into feelings throughout our coaching journey.
Frequently Asked Questions
What is sex coaching?
Sex coaching is the blend of sexology and applied coaching. Sexology, according to the Institute of Advanced Study of Human Sexuality (IASHA) is “the study of what people do sexually and how they think and feel about it.” Using sexology as our foundation, sex coaches work with clients to uncover any harmful or inhibiting thoughts and feelings about sexuality and move the client toward their goals.
Is sex coaching the same as sex therapy?
NO. Unlike therapy, sex coaching focuses on the present and future (not the past). Sex coaching is a modality that helps clients move towards what they want to achieve. In sex coaching, we do not “analyze the patient” , rather, we evaluate the situations and assess the concerns of the client.
What should I expect from sex coaching?
The sex coaching process can be life-changing! You can expect to be challenged to think differently and try new things. You can also expect for me to be a safe container for you to share your experiences and erotic desires with. By trusting the coaching process and allowing me to be your guide, you will learn, grow, and become more empowered.
Who can sex coaching help?
Sex coaching can help just about anyone. It is designed to help with a wide variety of sexual concerns including:
- Body image issues
- Painful sex
- Low or No Desire
- Uneven desire in relationships
- Communication conflits
- Gender identity concerns
- Sexual Orientation/attraction concerns
And many more!
Who do you work with?
I work with penis owners, vulva owners, people on the GSRD spectrum and members of the LGBTQIA+ community. I take special interest in working with clients that are a part of or interested in exploring alternative relationship styles like ethical non-monogamy and polyamory, women exploring their sexuality and gender identity, and people who simply want more erotic pleasure in their lives.
Contact Me
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